how all cultures work
There are certain expectations in all cultures and there is a lot of intimidation.
It equals forcing people to adjust to some cultural norm.
That’s how cultures always work, and we shouldn’t be surprised.
But, we can always choose to ignore this pressure and do what we please instead.
Will there be people who will not like it? For sure. Should we care that they’re not pleased? We might, but we might just as well ignore the fact that they don’t like it.