What does it mean to be an adult?

Do what other (most) people my age do without ever asking why, because you’re supposed to color inside the lines, not ask questions?

Is this adulthood?

Or be dead serious, wear office clothes, work 9–5, not freak out, not stand out, not act weird?

Is this adulthood?

Or always aim to make more money to buy more stuff or, as it is nowadays, experiences, so that you can then show off to your Facebook or Instagram friends?